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The following excerpt is taken from the new book
The Crystal Children: A Guide to the Newest Generation of Psychic and Sensitive
Children, by Doreen Virtue, Ph.D.
It is published by Hay House, Inc., and will be available June 2003 at all bookstores,
by phone 800-654-5126.
Late-Talkers, Telepathy, and Trances
At age two, Harry was diagnosed as "autistic" when
it was apparent that his speech development lagged behind normal. At first,
his parents and doctor thought that Harry had a hearing problem, so they
had grommets (protective loops) placed in his ears. But Harry still didnt
speak. His mother,
Karenanne, says:
"Harry has always had a very sunny temperament
and showed no angst at being unable to speak. It was like talking was something
hed do when he was good and ready. It was the same with his reading
skills. He showed no interest in baby books, yet when he got interested in
Pokemon, he rapidly showed that he indeed knew how
to read, and he just pored over those handbooks."
At age five, Harry began to speak. It was as if his reading and writing skills
were awakened after lying dormant for many years. Now at age nine, Harry reads
childrens encyclopedias for fun and has developed a good general knowledge
for his age.
Was Harry autistic previously? His personality doesnt indicate that.
Remember that autism describes a condition where people live in their own
little worlds, disconnected from others. They dont speak because they
dont notice others.
Harry, in contrast, quite frequently asks strangers questions, and hell
approach other children to inquire about a toy theyre carrying.
Harrys mother says that shes gotten used to her son approaching
strangers now! "And the surprising thing is," she remarks, "that
people sense his loving energy and accept it
without getting angry at the invasion of their space. Hes showing
them how to
be more open."
So why was Harry diagnosed as autistic? Does speaking or reading later than
expected warrant such a serious diagnosis? Why not call these sensitive children
"late-talkers" instead of pathologizing them with psychiatric diagnoses
and making them feel ashamed of themselves?
Hundreds of parents around the globe have submitted stories for this book,
telling about their Crystal Children who "took their sweet time"
to begin speaking. Perhaps instead of labeling this phenomenon "an epidemic
of autism," as the media and medical establishment has done, we should
examine it for indications of humankinds evolution.
Who knowsmaybe we dont need speaking anymore! Perhaps its
as antiquated as the toes that we once used for climbing trees! Could telepathy
be akin to the opposable thumbs we developed through evolutionthat is,
a necessary new tool for a changing world?
Truly, speech does seem clumsy and imprecise compared to mental communication.
Many scientists at large universities such as Stanford, Princeton, and Yale
have studied the phenomenon of mind-to-mind communication. These studies yield
verifiable data supporting the premise that telepathy is a measurable behavior
that definitely exists. I wrote about this scientific research in my book
The Lightworkers Way (Hay House, 1997).
I remember my initial (big) experience with telepathy. I was 17, and my beloved
grandfather had just been killed in an auto accident. An hour after his death,
his apparition came to me. I was wide awake, sober, and in full communication
with him. He had a bluish-white glow around him but otherwise looked just
like he always had. Then he began speaking to menot with his mouth,
but with his mind. I heard his voice inside my head as plainly as if he were
alive and talking into my ear. He told me not to grieve for him, that he was
fine. We communicated a bit more, and then he was gone. My grandfathers
brother, who lived in a distant city, also reported seeing his spirit that
same night.
That incident taught me to trust the mental communications that Id
regularly received throughout my life from angels and the spirit world.
It helped me when I became a full-time psychic medium years later. And
it continues to assist me
in my writing and speaking work. When people compliment me on my psychic
abilities or prolific writing abilities, I always reply, "Thank you.
Im a good listener."
Being a parent to a Crystal Child means being a good listener as well. In
fact, just having a Crystal seems to awaken latent psychic abilities in parents.
Andrea Kiger calls her three-year-old daughter, Abbie, a "classic Crystal
Child" because she matches the description so perfectly. Andrea says
that not only did she give birth to this special little being, but she also
gave birth to her own psychic abilities. She recalls, "Out of nowhere
I was able to know things, and see and communicate with those who have passed
over. This all came about the very day after Abbies birth. Im
certain that it was an awakening for me."
Those who have had near-death experiences report an increase in psychic abilities
afterward. Many also say that being in the presence of great love, such as
that which exists in the afterlife plane, opens us up psychically. So its
not surprising that parenting a super-loving Crystal Child would have this
same effect. Crystals also choose psychically sensitive parents and grandparents
as part of their "survival on Earth" techniques. After all, if kids
arent going to communicate verbally, they need to choose telepathic
moms and dads to ensure that their needs are met.
As Ive mentioned, its very common for Crystal Children to begin
speaking at age three or later. This was the case for Teresa Zepeda, whose
six-year-old daughter is fittingly named "Crystal." Teresa says:
"Crystal only spoke three words (Mama, Dada,
no) up until age three, when she suddenly started using complete sentences.
Prior to that age, she used grunts and charades. We called her cave
baby. But she also had a way of letting us know what she wanted without
saying anything. I guess she was communicating with telepathy. It had to be.
How else would I know what she was thinking?"
Teresas daughter exemplifies a pattern that many parents describe, whereby
the children go from minimal verbalization to more comprehensive speaking
skills virtually overnight. Catherine Poulton says that her son Kylan, age
five, was about three years old before he could talk. "Kylan didnt
speak, didnt even form nouns, and then suddenly one day he started talking
in complete sentences."
The issue of late-talking only seems to be a problem for those who worry.
For more relaxed parents, its a non-issue. Such is the case for Beverly
Moore, mother of Ethan, age five. Beverly says that "Ethan didnt
talk until he was about age three. He never had the baby talk
sound either. I wasnt too concerned, as I figured hed speak when
he had something to say. I never had a problem knowing what Ethan wanted."
However, its not always easy for parents to nonchalantly accept that
their children are "different." One woman told me that she feels
embarrassed around other mothers because she suspects that they judge her
for having a "mute" son. So, some parents take the matter into their
own hands, doing research, reading all the books about late talking, and instituting
behavioral and dietary modifications to spur their childrens language
development. Evie says that her two-year-old daughter, Mei, responded positively
to homeschooling. She says:
"Mei was a happy and alert baby who walked
at ten months, yet she decided not to speak until later, and we had to evaluate
her for speech impairments. She tested very highly in the social and cognitive
areas, but she just wouldnt speak. At around 15 months, she spoke a
few words here and there. In fact, her first word wasHi! The doctor
said that she was about four months behind in speaking. So I worked with her
at home, and now she talks a lot. At age two, she knows all of her colors,
letters, and the numbers one through ten."
Several mothers told me that their Crystal Children appreciated the extra
attention that homeschooling provided, and that the kids vocabularies
grew as
a result.
Still, there are many ways to communicate. Many parents commented that their
children created their own form of sign language. One woman said that her
child went through deliberate motions to teach her this self-styled way of
communicating so that they could understand each other. Kelly Colby-Nunez
says that her youngest children prefer to communicate through drawings: "My
children (ages 6, 4, and 15 months) prefer drawing to speaking and will spend
hours doing so. My six-year-old also told me that he often communicates with
his friends without talking."
Perhaps one reason why Crystal Children speak later than previous generations
is that verbal speech is foreign to them. This is what Sue Jalil suspects
about her four-year-old son, Sean:
"Seans very telepathic, and his speech was late in developing,
so late that he had a grommet put in to help him hear better. Its only
recently that hes managed to overcome some of the speech difficultly.
Even now, though, some letters are very hard for him to form. I believe that
this is his first time on planet Earth, and that to use his mouth and tongue
to communicate is very foreign to him, where in the past he was just telepathic.
By the way, the grommets made no difference whatsoever."
Many parents and doctors suspect that late-talkers have a medically based
hearing problem. Penny said that both of her daughters didnt talk until
they were three years old. She had both girls ears tested, which revealed
that their hearing was fine. Penny says that she hadnt really been worried,
though:
"Something told me that the problem wasnt
with their hearing. My instincts told me
that my children just didnt feel an overwhelming need to talk yet.
My oldest seemed
to have a language all her own. We didnt understand what she was
saying, but she was talking all the time. And with both girls, I always
seemed to know what they wanted or needed."
Penny says that her biggest challenge with her Crystals was how others perceived
them. She recalls:
"People would ask my kids questions about things,
and they wouldnt answer or didnt know. There are certain expectations
when people talk to a child that age, but my children didnt fit those.
For example, I would try to teach them how old they were or where their nose
was, and they were totally uninterested in learning these things."
Penny remembers feeling embarrassed and judged when her children wouldnt
answer peoples questions. She recalls that the baby-sitter turned her
in to Childrens Protection Services because her daughters didnt
talk much and were barking and pretending that they were dogs.
Like many Crystal Children, Penny says that her daughters motor
skill development was right on track, but their verbal skills lagged behind,
in comparison to the norm. Yet, when each girl reached the age of three,
they suddenly opened up and began speaking normally. Penny says, "I
never had
any doubt that they were bright kids. I have to keep reminding myself
that its okay that my children are different. Theyre going
to be very special people. I just know it."
The parents who seem to have the easiest time with their late-talking
children
are those who learn to communicate telepathically, and who recognize and
use body language. A mother whos actually named Crystal says, "My
daughters almost two. She doesnt speak yet and doesnt
feel the need to. We can look at each other and know what the other wants,
so for now it seems that speech
isnt necessary."
Another mother named Misty Rose had an easy time communicating nonverbally
with her daughter, Leah. However, Misty says, "When Leah was 12 months
old, we had to remind her that not everyone could communicate with her telepathically,
so she had to use her words."
That bit of information seemed to help. Now two, Leah speaks at the level
of three- and four-year-olds. Part of the pact that parents have with Crystal
Children is showing them "the ropes" of living on Earth, after all.
Telepathic Communication
The Crystal Children are born psychic. As babies, their heads and eyes turn
as they clearly see angels and spirit guides. With inborn spiritual gifts,
its normal for them to be profound mind-readers as well. Many parents
told me stories similar to Natarshas.
Crystal Children are born psychic.
Natarsha is the mother of five-year-old Tyrique. She says that her sons
statements have always stunned her. Natarsha exclaims, "I swear he
reads
my mind!"
One day the two were riding on a bus in silence. Natarsha mentally wondered
whether Tyrique would spend the upcoming weekend with his dad. Suddenly, Tyrique
blurted out, "Dads picking me up on Friday to go to his house."
The following day, Natarsha was thinking about what to make for dinner when
Tyrique said, "Mom, I have a good idea. Why dont you make that
rice dish
for dinner?"
When Natarsha asked Tyrique how he knew what she was thinking, he replied,
"God told me in my head."
Tyriques spiritual listening skills have proven handy on more than one
occasion. Natarsha was dressing for work one day, struggling to zip up her
pants. They werent tight; they just werent zipping. Just then,
Tyrique entered the room and said, "Mommy, you have to button your pants
first and then the zipper will work." Natarsha wondered how Tyrique even
knew that she was having problems with her zipper.
She says, "I thought Id humor him by complying with his statement,
so I buttoned my pants as he watched me, and then tried the zipper thinking
to myself, This isnt going to work." The zipper went up without
a hitch! When Natarsha asked Tyrique how he knew to come to the bathroom to
help her, he simply stated, "I just know. I listen to my mind,"
and he walked off. To this day, Natarsha has to button those pants for the
zipper to work.
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The Crystal Children teach us to trust our intuitive thoughts and feelings.
Like Natarsha, Carolyn asked her six-year-old daughter, Haley, about her telepathic
abilities. Haley replied that she could see into her mothers brain and
also see
her thoughts.
Ive taught psychic development classes worldwide since 1996, and Ive
found that one of the most important things to do when trying to develop psychically
is to notice and trust the thoughts, feelings, words, and visions that enter
your mind. The Crystal Children are brilliant role models for doing so. Jaimie
says that her 18-month-old daughter, Isabella, confidently announces, "Daddy,
Daddy" moments before her father arrives home. Often when the telephone
rings she says, "Nanny," and sure enough, her grandmother is on
the phone.
One reason why children are so psychic is their indifference to whether theyre
merely imagining these intuitive messages. They dont anguish about whether
something is make-believe or real. To children, its all real!
The Crystal Children are clearly mind-readers. Magda says that her four-year-old
daughter frequently verbalizes what shes thinking. "For instance,"
she recalls, "one evening I saw her sleeping in bed and thought in my
head, I love you, and she replied in her sleep, I love you, too!"
As Crystals grow up, this telepathy can either be polished or squelched. The
former happens when parents praise the childs gift and learn how to
develop it in themselves. The latter occurs when parents show fear or anxiety
in response to their childs ability to read minds.
Telepathy is part of the Crystal Childrens Divine arsenal to help rid
the earth of deceit. When someone is fully telepathic, no one can lie to them.
As the Crystal Children progress into adulthood, theyll know with certainty
if a politician or salesperson is deceiving them. Collectively, theyll
compel the inhabitants of our planet to live with integrity.
Telepathy has a more immediate benefit as well. Crystal says that she uses
telepathy to communicate with her three-year-old daughter, Zoey, in emergency
situations. For instance, if Zoey strolls away from her, Crystal telepathically
shouts "Stop!" and Zoey immediately halts and turns to look at her
mother.
Going into Trances
Sometimes Crystal Children go into trances where they seemingly dont
hear their parents. This can happen particularly when theyre outside
in nature. This trancelike state is a characteristic often used to diagnose
autism. But with Crystal Children, this would be an inaccurate diagnosis,
because these kids are just tuning out the world temporarily. Not only that,
but Crystal Children are very empathetic, connected, and loving with other
people. Truly autistic kids exhibit no sense of connection at all with the
outside world.
Personally, I go into trances when Im channeling or receiving information.
Before I fully acknowledged my spiritual gifts, I actually received many angel
messages while watching television. Thats because television focuses
the mind on a single spot, in much the same way that scrying mirrors (black
mirrors used for divination) and crystal balls are focal points.
Andrea says that her three-year-old daughter, Abbie, also goes into trances
when she watches television. Andrea explains:
"When the television set is on, Abbie
gets sucked in to the point where she cant hear anyone around
her. We really have to really limit her TV time. Abbie is a gentle soul and
a healer whos one with nature and animals. As much as technology goes
against who she is, she seems to get sucked into it and cant escape
its grip. We have to turn off computers and TVs to get her to interact with
the family again."
Another mother, Denise Bunning, said that her daughter Alice used to go into
trances when she was younger. Denise would turn Alices face toward her
to get her full attention. Now at age five, Alice uses the same method with
her mother. Whenever Denise ignores her daughter, the little girl turns her
mothers face toward her own!
As touched on above, many parents told me that their children become incredibly
focusedas if theyre in a trancewhen theyre outside
in nature. The Crystal Children sit and stare at bugs or leaves for minutes
at a time. This focusing ability
is a gift that the Crystals will find useful in the future as they assume
leadership roles as adults.
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